Why do we have to chase friendship and relationships? Why can't we have all our friends and lover in our life without the tedious chase?
I still remember my cousin reading out a quote loud and clear, "If you do not chase what you want, you can never have it."
I wonder if that's true.
I mean yes, we try to go after what we want quite often but upto what extent? Till we start being clingy or being called insane?
At one point we really want a particular person in our life, and we chase him so bad. But in the end, we realize all these were the false hopes and this person wasn't worth chasing.
We are all constantly torn between 'Chasing what we want.' and 'Not chasing anything due to the fear of being clingy.' we often say, what's meant to be will be. But really? Is it true?
If this makes you think about the friends you've lost so far because you were so complicatedly stuck between 'The Chase' and 'No Chase.' then, you aren't the only one. Believe me, you shedding tears won't help. Your tears don't bother them anymore.
You consider a guy as your closest male friend, you call him your brother? Well, Try and lean forward and he'll kiss you. Like no offence, not all guys are like that. But you don't really find those exceptionally good guys now-a-days. After everything that'll happen, you'll wonder if the friendship is worth chasing, worth saving. Your Bestfriend will suddenly ignore you. You'll question her priorities. But sometimes people leave. Leave without an explanation. You find yourself so unworthy of an explanation that your mind unleashes onto your incapabilities whose scars are almost visible that they become a physical as well as an internal ache. Nobody deserves that. But they left; left you with scars and bruises on your soul.
Your soul that bleeds, bleeds the hope that you've lost. Friendships and love scares you now. You've seen people leave when they promised they won't, when they've witnessed your most embarrassing secrets.
You gave them a part of you and they left with that part of yours and they left you their memory in return which haunts you every night now. Why did they do that?
No, I do not know. I do not know why a human would do that, leave another person with such an emotional imbalance. I don't see the point of fake promises but I do see the superficiality of the relationships. I cannot tell you that they left for some good. But I can tell you that if someone leaves you in the middle of nowhere, it's their loss. They lose the journey. You do not switch off your emotions because of that. You do not become the person you hate. You donot leave someone in the middle of their journey, you know why? Because you know how much it hurts. You don't offer that pain to someone else. Also you know, it'll be your loss if you left them midway. You do whatever, fight, explain, ANYTHING.
But you STAY.
You know why?
because in the end, it's all about the one who stays.
I still remember my cousin reading out a quote loud and clear, "If you do not chase what you want, you can never have it."
I wonder if that's true.
I mean yes, we try to go after what we want quite often but upto what extent? Till we start being clingy or being called insane?
At one point we really want a particular person in our life, and we chase him so bad. But in the end, we realize all these were the false hopes and this person wasn't worth chasing.
We are all constantly torn between 'Chasing what we want.' and 'Not chasing anything due to the fear of being clingy.' we often say, what's meant to be will be. But really? Is it true?
If this makes you think about the friends you've lost so far because you were so complicatedly stuck between 'The Chase' and 'No Chase.' then, you aren't the only one. Believe me, you shedding tears won't help. Your tears don't bother them anymore.
You consider a guy as your closest male friend, you call him your brother? Well, Try and lean forward and he'll kiss you. Like no offence, not all guys are like that. But you don't really find those exceptionally good guys now-a-days. After everything that'll happen, you'll wonder if the friendship is worth chasing, worth saving. Your Bestfriend will suddenly ignore you. You'll question her priorities. But sometimes people leave. Leave without an explanation. You find yourself so unworthy of an explanation that your mind unleashes onto your incapabilities whose scars are almost visible that they become a physical as well as an internal ache. Nobody deserves that. But they left; left you with scars and bruises on your soul.
Your soul that bleeds, bleeds the hope that you've lost. Friendships and love scares you now. You've seen people leave when they promised they won't, when they've witnessed your most embarrassing secrets.
You gave them a part of you and they left with that part of yours and they left you their memory in return which haunts you every night now. Why did they do that?
No, I do not know. I do not know why a human would do that, leave another person with such an emotional imbalance. I don't see the point of fake promises but I do see the superficiality of the relationships. I cannot tell you that they left for some good. But I can tell you that if someone leaves you in the middle of nowhere, it's their loss. They lose the journey. You do not switch off your emotions because of that. You do not become the person you hate. You donot leave someone in the middle of their journey, you know why? Because you know how much it hurts. You don't offer that pain to someone else. Also you know, it'll be your loss if you left them midway. You do whatever, fight, explain, ANYTHING.
But you STAY.
You know why?
because in the end, it's all about the one who stays.
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